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writes:hi just recently i read this romance book that i can really relate myself to the girl it was the best book ever (twilight) and i finished it in a day but as soon as id finished it it was really weird because i felt so sad and melancholy because the guy in it was sort of someone that id like to fall in love with. and i felt jealous of the way he treated her. Its so strange! I've never felt like this before and whenever I've liked a guy I have never been game to tell him. I dont really like any of the guys i know at the moment. But I feel so sad like I wish there was a guy out there that would love me. What do i do?
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reader, Fairy_Lu  +, writes (16 January 2009):
 I love the twilight books and i think every girl who reads the book falls in love with Edward because the book is so well written, but the fact is its a book and he is a fictional vampire and as much as we all want a "vegetarian" gorgeous protective loveing romantic vampire for a boyfriend its not the reality.
Trust mne there is someone out there who will love you the way Edward loves Bella annd soon you will forget all about Edward
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2009): im the one who wrote this. thanks for posting lol i wish there were beautiful,sensitive vampire guys lol. Its so strange though i just feel soooo sad and depressed i dont know what its about!!! maybe the book triggered something lol.
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reader, crazy_in_luv  +, writes (16 January 2009):
hey there!
i read twilight too so i know how u feel..
i kept comparing my bf with edward....and finally he sat me down and said "look..pick from the 2 of us-either that supernatural hottie,or merely a human who loves u supernaturally.."
and ihavent thought of edward since...
go out and hang out with ur girls...perhaps u will run into a hottie..
take care!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (16 January 2009):
 You will find someone who will love you, but do not be hasty to commit to the first, or to many of those who will show interest. Enjoy yourself, but be very smart. You are extremely young and will have so many years to live even before true love really becomes all that important. Trust me, young love is really hormone-driven lust, not real love. You have time to be very picky in selecting a mate, which is something that I think too many young women are much less prudent about than they should be.
Too many are far too hasty about finding "love" long before it is even possible. Thus, we have legions of single young women who have become mothers, and so many children growing up without a more favorable family situation. For your own good, be wise and allow yourself possibly another ten to 15 years before you get really serious about deciding that you have met someone to marry, raise children and live with the rest of your natural life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2009): omg! that was the best book ever! i know exactly how you are feeling, i kind of felt jealous that i didnt have a guy like edward for me either. The best thing you can do is just make friends that are guys, sometimes it turns into something and sometimes not, but its always good to have friends.
:D
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reader, Griffo +, writes (16 January 2009):
 There are lots of them out there. But one of the most romantic things you can ever do is have just one guy who is a good friend, he dosent want to always be with you both sexually and in girlfriend/boyfriend relationship but, maybe, deep down inside he really does want that. These are the kind of blokes who will know you for the rest of your life, he will disapear for years in the future then come back when you least expect him, this goes on throughout your whole life, you will likley fall in love with him too but something always gets in the way of you both being together, you will never tell him your love for him neither. These romances are the best life has to offer. This guy would kind of be your, Forrest Gump or Benjamin Button.
So never be afraid to make friends with a guy, they will be cool. Just ask to hang out and enjoy the friendship. friends are a good way to start and your at the age right where you will make these friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2009): Enjoy the feeling! As weird as that sounds, you read a romance to feel a bit romantic. Thats why the book was written to give those feelings and it worked. Be happy it did. Same as watching a horror movie to frighten yourself. But remember it's only fantasy, beautiful, sensitive vampire guys don't exist. hehe
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