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writes:hi, i have come in contact with this great guy ( i think ) smart, handsome, funny and above a nice person.so far so good.the attraction from my side is there but im not sure how he feels. should i ask him/tell him how i feel? i dont want to scare him away if he doesnt feel for me. two meet so far but almost every third day email/sms , thats all so far. im 28, he is 27, both successful, passionate about life in general. Nothing to lose , both ends. But i would love to know how he feels for me. his personality: quiet, calm, calculative,passionate abt luv n life. mine personality; down to earth, stubborn ( typical taurus woman) luv my family , friends , love itself, ambitious. please help.
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reader, 2old4this  +, writes (18 January 2008):
 Yea, you just want to know for sure if this is that friend path or is it the more than friends path you guys are taking because of the distance. I think most guys are like me and like things pretty straight forward. Just ask him one day. "Do you like me?". Or some variation of that. You know what I meen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2008): If you have just met twice it is early days yet. Maybe you just need to give it some time. Also, he could be shy. Some people find it easier to text and email as they can be freer in what they say - think about whether this is the case with him.
Relationships take time to develop. There are some useful websites about body language that may help you to be able to tell whether he is attracted to you.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (18 January 2008):
 You could ask him how he feels about your first and then only then you respond appropriately.
If he comes to see you or emails you , he is into you.Definitely , if he is seeing you , he is interested in you.
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