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writes:I'm really worried about going out with this girl. I'm 16 and she's 17 and she's really beautiful and smart and we really get each other. But i've never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl or anything and i'm worried that i won't know what to do. I don't want to mess things up with her... My brother says i should go out with a couple of girls i don't like that much for practice first, but i don't think i'd be able to do that to anyone. But i'd have no idea how to go about a date or when to see her or anthing and i'm worried i'll just mess everything up cos i don't know what i'm doing. What do you think i should do? Thanks in advance :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2010): don't worry. i only had my first kiss a couple of months ago. i had no idea how to kiss at all. tell her that you don't know. she'll understand and if she really likes you then it won't be embaressing if you mess up. basically to kiss you open your lips and put them either on her bottom or top lip, close leave for a few seconds and then move your head backwards and then do the same again on the same lip. then when you feel you have it move your tongue near to your lips and she'll feel it and then move her tongue there too and then move your tongue around hers. hope this helps
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (3 April 2010):
 Kissing is reasonably instinctive and once you get started you will be able to go with the flow. The key thing to remember is that when you start the softer and gentler you can be, the better the kiss. As the kiss goes on you can get firmer.
If I were you I would admit to her at the beginning of the date that you are nervous cause I can guarantee you she will be nervous too and a problem shared is a problem halved.
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