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anonymous
writes: i dont always come with my husband and when i come its not at all intense. i never felt intense orgasm with him. please help... cant figure out the reason
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (21 July 2010):
 I know I already replyed once but I remember something. Not all women even have orgasms so if you're hving less thab intense orgasms consider yourself lucky. I've been with women that can't cum and they try to fake so as to cover up the fact they are not able to orgasm. Faking one is worse to a guy thwan not having one at all.
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reader, olderthandirt +, writes (21 July 2010):
Orgasms are a mystery even men have various degrees of orgasm.. don't worry about it and life will unfold itself as it sees fit. You'll have great ones and good ones . Main thing is keep on trying Or you'll be using your vibrtor on a regular basis.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2010): I have never exp. an intense org. with any guy I have been with in fact, I am the only one who can make myself feel pleasure..that is...through masterba. I don't know why that is.....
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reader, TheWolf +, writes (21 July 2010):
 Im guessing youve been married less than 5 years according to your age range listed . And im guessing you have felt an intense orgasm with someone in your past for you to compare your experiences with your husband to . The problem could be alot of things . Try 1st using your imagination without letting him in on it , think of your wildest fantasy , may even need to use a friendly helping toy to warm up with before he gets home . Most women rave about THE BULLET lol . If this works or helps there are alot of things you will find out you can do to spice up your sex life . Bottom line - after a while in most marriages, things sizzle out , if you feel unsatisfied most likely he is too . Its normal , sex isnt everything but it is a good thing to have a great sex life with your spouse . Just do what you can to spice it up make it more exciting even for him . If he is more into it then he will be more apt to please you . Experiment and explore .
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2010): I'm assuming you have had intense orgasms in teh past then? What was different? Is your husband less experienced, less adept, shorter or skinnier? What HAS given you intense orgasms? Were they vaginal, clitoral, cervical or a combination? Kinda need more info
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2010): Get sexual gratification off your mind and concentrate on the other things in life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2010): Probably just not stimulating you enough or your worrying and stopping it happening.Buy a sex toy? Thatyou can use together?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2010): Don't worry about it. Some women experience their first intense orgasm in their late 30's, others after they gave birth and unfortunately there are women who haven't ever experienced one. All advice I can give you is to keep trying, there is nothing wrong with you don't worry. Try different poses and angles. Try faster and slower, don't give up. Enjoy sex and the orgasm will come itself :)
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