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male
age
30-35,
*ilveknifex
writes:about 3 weeks ago a the girl i love told me she loved me, it took her a course of three days to say it, first day she explained she was scared, becasue she didnt think she wouldnt fall in love again, second day she says she mite love me to death, 3rd day she finally said it, it felt amazing, but now 3 weeks form that faithful day, she s acting idk weird, last week i asked her about this and she told me, she didnt mean the love the way she thinks i took it, but you just dont tell your friends things like that, especially saying, it seems shes denying it, shes clearly not over her ex tho (they were together 3 years) she talks to me every night on the phone, and will call me randomly, so i know she does like to talk to me, but shes acting weird, shes know how i feel about her, but it seems the ex texted her a couple weekends ago, and last wekeend she texted him "asking him to sex" to see his answer , of course it was sure when he foudn out no strings attached, (this pissed her off, which she shuda of kown he was her ex for a reason u know, but it seems im stuck here, she doesnt seem ready for a realtionship and i know i really liek her i have to give her her space and see what happend, its just its hard ive never been in this situation and i really do love this girl.
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reader, guppypig +, writes (24 March 2009):
She is using you as an emotional crutch while she has sex with her ex. You are the backup plan.If you want to be the backup plan, then good luck. Some guys prefer to play the beta role. Just realize she doesn't take you too seriously, mate.
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