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I've liked him for 8 years but he won't open up and actually say if he wants to be with me

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Question - (9 July 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 July 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I really need help I've been in love with this guy for 2 years now But I've had a crush on him since 2000 him and I talk off and on he acts like he likes me and wants to be with me but it also seems like he's afraid or something I try my best to stay calm and patient with him But I've been expressing myself to him for 3 almost 4 years now and I get nothing from him today we had a talk and I tried to get him to open up but he didn't am I wrong for wanting to know his feelings for me??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008):

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I actually agree with both answers so far but moving on is a difficult thing for me to do right now I've tried but it didn't work and now the thought alone makes me cry. I feel like I'm going to be stuck here for awhile and I really don't want to be stuck but don't they say love makes you do some crazy things and I guess the crazy thing I'm doing is still waiting for this man to open up because I see that he has feelings for me he shows me that it's just getting him to open up verbally.

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A female reader, starfairy United Kingdom +, writes (9 July 2008):

starfairy agony auntYou've been waiting far too long for this guy.

He's shown that he has some emotional deficiency...

Move on!!

There will be someone better...

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