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writes: im going out with this girl for about three weeks but for some reson i like her best frend.but i know if i leave her her frend wont like me.so can someone help me? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2007): Well if you don't like this girl then stop this relationship with her. Because you are just leading her on. And if you are thinking "well I do like her, I just like her friend more." That in my book means you don't like her. Because if you did you wouldn't like anyone else more. And that is not fair to her. So let her down gently and move on.
As for her friend, well that has happened to me too. And I have always chosen the moral route and just not pursued it. I am sure you have liked other girls before who didn't like you back. It's called unrequitted love. So take this to mean the same thing and just move on. Because it would just be so mean of you to pursue her friend.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (15 September 2007):
Turn your girl over to one of you friends, the go out as double date.Works somes if the girl doesn't feel left out.
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reader, beautifultrustnlover +, writes (15 September 2007):
get what you take here hunthey're friends and if you hurt her in leaving her for her friend than they wont be friends even if her friend goes for you that is but trust yourself, no use being with some one you dont or hardly like
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