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writes: I have been in my current relationship since January this year. I've known my boyfriend for almost 8 years as we were best friends at college. I just miscarried his baby. He sends me an email telling me he doesn't want to continue anymore, that he wishes me all the best in my life but he doesnt want it to include him right now. He says he's sorry to do this to a friend 1st and a lover 2nd but it is what he has to do. He says he wants some space right now as he really needs it. He then says he will call me when he's ready. I really don't know what to do! Is this a temporary thing? or do I move on with my life?
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reader, Ainslie +, writes (12 September 2006):
 I'd have to agree with Ponun and Pete. It was really a terrible thing of him to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks alot guys and girls. I'm starting to understand. He got scared and ran. He has been there most of the time. For this I can forgive but I won't ever forget. I will carry on doing my own thing. Thanks
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reader, Ms. Tanya +, writes (5 September 2006):
 Oh! Gosh hon, that bites.
Even if he just wants it to be a temporary thing, I would make it permanant. He needed space, o.k. but he takes a little space not a break off for awhile, and definatly not when you've just lost your baby, thats a big deal. Looseing your baby like that, I think he still loves you, but I think he was scared, it's a huge deal for a guy to agree to have kids with a women and he thought he was all ready but instead it took a wrong twist un settleing him and upseting the frick out of you. He should have stayed by your side and born this thing together instead of breaking it up so you guys could deal with it seperatly and then get together later and try again. So it's up to you, you can wait for him or move on, he will come back I think, because I think he still loves you, but he got scared and ran.
~Ms. Tanya
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2006): Still in love with you? What the hell?
Anonymous - you might not see this now but this worked out in your favour. What a complete emotional coward for doing this to you. No man that loves you would ever dump you by email. They would be by your bedside looking after you and being there for you.
Move on with your life and be thankful you saw his true colours even if it had to be through such difficult circumstances.
As Ponun says: Goodbye and good riddance!
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reader, gladyz +, writes (4 September 2006):
hello my dear, i think he still inlove with you. but maybe he really need a time for a while to think about the situation. guess all man needs their cave sometimes. if you give him a time i think he will come back to you. go on and relax your self for a while, enjoy your time listening music, sport, shopping etc. but dont lose your contact with him.if you do care for him try to be good friend to him to let him know that you still care. good luck... XXX
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (4 September 2006):
 Say good-bye and good riddance. This guy has no soul. You don't need someone like that in your life. If he calls you "when he's ready", tell him to take a long walk on a short pier. Move on, and quickly. . . .
Good luck!
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