A
female
age
26-29,
*mz-ii
writes:There's this boy I really like and his friends keep hinting he likes me too. We used to sit next to each other in class and we got really close, he kept touching my leg and poking me and he'd look at me and once I'd noticed he was, he'd look away. Then one time the school librarian was running a lesson because the teacher wasn't there and the boy kept poking and playing with me and the librarian says, "Am I interrupting something?" The boy says, "Oh no, miss..." And the librarian says, "I'm sorry 'Mark' if you fancy 'Lucy', she's really pretty, I understand, but you must focus in class." And he didn't deny anything... Then the Tuesday before the vacation, his friends said, "Oh why don't you go out with 'Lucy'(=me), look at the way she looks at you, it's obvious you two should go out." And my friend 'Lisa' suggested I should go out with him and asked him out for me (I didn't ask her to ask him) and he said he'd think about it, and his friends keep smirking everytime he wants to see me. But in the last lesson before the vacation, I was sitting on a sofa in the library, reading, and all the other girls had gone onto another sofa (I didn't realize at first) and then all the boys, including the boy I fancy, started to sit next to me. 'Mark' (the boy I fancy) was next to me but then my friend 'Amy' started wolf whistling and hinting so 'Mark' made his friend sit next to me, and his friend started rubbing against me, I didn't say anything so I'm a bit creeped out. Maybe it was a test to see if I'd rub him back? My friend 'Kelly' went on my MSN when she was at my house and she left 'Mark' offline messages saying, "Oh when we get back to school, 'Lucy's' going to ask you out, ooooh she loves you..." stuff like that. And we were on a field trip once, skiing, and 'Mark' managed to get into my bedroom, and he started playing games on my cell phone, and then he started looking at me, in the eyes, and the problem is I have this really bad habit of saying, "What are you looking at?" everytime someone does that kind of thing. We stayed really silent for about 20 seconds and then I said it and he's like, "Oh nothing." and then continued to play games and then we had a disco and he was in my bedroom again and we have the silence, and I'm saying to myself, "don't say it, don't say it..." and we were looking at each other for longer and guess what? I say it! But at the disco he danced with one of my friends who knew I fancied him but he saw me (I was dancing with my friend who's a girl, I'm not a lesbian by the way) and started pulling funny faces... So, questions...1) Should I ask him out myself, he might of thought 'Lisa' was joking?2) Should I wait for an answer from when 'Lisa' asked.3) Should I kill 'Kelly'? Haha (joke)4) Do the long silences mean he wants me to kiss him?
View related questions:
lesbian, msn Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, Kawika  +, writes (2 March 2008):
 I know you are getting anxious, but I think maybe you should wait a while. Obviously, from your letter...I think he likes you. Let him chase you. Make him work to get your attention and love. If there is anything in life I've learned it would be that the things that are the most difficult to get or achieve become the most precious to us. This also implies to our relationships, especially romance. I am concerned that if you make it too easy for him he may not treat you as well as he should. Some boys (men) are like that...unfortunately, that is just how it is. In the meantime, flirt with him. But, don't make him think that you are EASY. He will respect you more. And, dont forget to continuously test him to see the "true colors" of his personality. I hope this helps
A
female
reader, emz-ii +, writes (2 March 2008):
emz-ii is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for the replies everyone!Now, another question to go along with it all...Do you think I should ask one of his friends (they both sit near me in Science) if he does fancy me? Or do you think I should leave it?
...............................
A
female
reader, emz-ii +, writes (2 March 2008):
emz-ii is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the replies everyone!Now, another question to go along with it all...Do you think I should ask one of his friends (they both sit near me in Science) if he does fancy me? Or do you think I should leave it?
...............................
A
female
reader, love-him  +, writes (28 February 2008):
 HEY!!
it made me smile when you wrote about saying what you looking at etc, and the bit where you put 'im not a lesbien' (girls dance with each other without fancying eachother :) )
I think you should ho for it, ask him out and see what he says. From what you ahev already written it seems lke he does like you :)
I think if you are serious about this lad, then dont bother waiting :) go for it babe, you are young :)
:) nooo you shouldn't kill kelly :)!!
I actualy think that he does want to kiss you, but i think you are going to have to kiss him first to stop yourself from saying what are you looking at!! :)
GOOD LUCK!!! Feel free to mail me at any time x x x
...............................
A
male
reader, Kawika +, writes (28 February 2008):
Question #1: No...let him ask you out. It's his role.
Question #2: No...let him ask you out. It's his job
Quesiton #3: Yes...definitely
Question #4: No...it means He wants to kiss YOU.
Honestly, why should you be doing all the work for him. Let him do his share. If he really likes you (which I think He does) let him do what boys are designed to do...to ask YOU out. Just sit back and don't appear too desperate or needy. In fact, take the approach that you don't even care whether he asks you out or not. Even if you are screaming inside. When he finally does have the nerve to ask you out, just say..."Let me think about it.", even if your head is screaming "Yes!, Yes!, Yes!. He will respect you more for that. Trust me...he will be back for an answer. When he does ask you out again, say..."Why should I?". See what kind of response you get. It will drive him nuts. Well, it worked for me. lol
Good luck!
...............................
|
