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writes: Hi, my girfried and I have been together for a few years now and the probem is when we first met we always had sex but now we rarely have it. I feel I am not pleasing her enough as I cum very quickly indeed, approx 1 min from entry. I would like to know how to please a woman as I have no experience before her and she has some. She won't talk about sex or help me in any sense, I would like to know all things to do for oral and not to cum as quick as she gets frustrated and just turns over. HELP me please.... Reply to this Question
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Kevin, writes (3 March 2005): First of all I would suggest that you read a few books,"the clitiorial truth" ," Super sexual orgasm"," Extrodinary Sex Now" to name a few. Don't be embarrassed about them either. If she sees the books and knows that you are reading them to improve yourself for her, is a great start. Foreplay is key. For me it can go on anywhere from an hour to 3 or 4 , depending on how much time we have together. A women needs her whole body stimulated. Don't get right to the point, tease a little, well. actually a lot. The hotter SHE gets, the easier it becomes for her to reach climax. Make it about her.As far as cumming too quickly, there are exercises you can do. There is a muscle between yexercise it through-out the day. You can use that muscle to stop from cumming. Also you can pull your testes away from your body if you feel like you are going to cum, and slow down, mix up the motion. I am not sure what you are doing during oral sex, but as you are stimulating the clitoris, work the G-spot as well, it is located on the front inner wall,with palm facing up, providing she is on her back,insert finger or fingers and rub the front wall about 2 1/2 to 4 inches up. Toys are good also, does she have an egg? If not go to your local sex store and get one. I hope I have been helpful, if you have any other questions feel free to e-mail [email address blocked]
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