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I've got her number (I think!)... Where do I go from here?

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Question - (23 May 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 May 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, *ndy00 writes:

Last night while out with a couple of friends, I met a girl. I remember we seemed to get on quite well. I don't really remember what we were talking about, but we must have got on okay, because I eventually asked for her number. As far as I know she has given me it, but I've had a couple of experiences in the past where a girl has given me a fake number. During our conversation I remember her saying that she'd like to hear about the band that I'm in, so I have a good opportunity to meet with her if she still wants to.

So my question is, where do I go from here? What's my plan of action? Do I give her a call and suggest we discuss my band over a drink, or something? Any suggestions I will consider, so please help!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008):

I would give her a ring yes. maybe ask to meet and talk about your band should be a good idea. If it is a fake number then im sure it will be her loss just keep looking there will be someone out there for you.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (23 May 2008):

Well you sound like you were pretty drunk so she may well have given you a fake number to get rid of you. Girls are really not impressed by guys who are that out of it that they can't even remember you clearly the next day. You might want to cut down on your units, then you wouldn't have this problem.

Your next step is to text the, asking if this is the right number and if she really did want to meet up. Put a compliment in there like "hi, is this the pretty girl in the black top from Escapades Club, Sarah? This is Bob, would you still like to go out for dinner / a drink one night this week?"

If she replies then bingo, if not then there's always next time.

Good Luck!! xx

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