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writes: I just dont know what to do, ive been seeing my boyfriend for just over a year, hes the nicest guy ive ever met, and my family and friends love him!i have a high sex drive and he really doesent, and hes not really large where it counts so i find myself frustrated.i did stray a number of times over the first year just to satisfy myself until i was almost caught. i decided it wasent worth the risk. but now he is talking about getting married and settling down and i just not ready for that as im starting college in september. i havent meantioned that he is 15 years my senior. im 22 hes 37. but i dont think that age should matter but our lifes seem to be taking diffrent paths, and i hate to think about losing the best thing in my life!!!
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (3 April 2006):
 Me and my boyfriend are the same; he's older and has next to no sex drive, I'm only 19 and have a very high one. It often gets me very frustrated too but I have never strayed.
Sex is an important part of a relationship, of course, but the whole point of relationships is you take the other as they are. If you love him for everything else, is this really a big enough problem to lose him over? I know it's difficult, I'm in your position too but I love him too much to let this come between us. You need to decide just how much you want to be with this man and whether this sacrifice is something you are willing to make.
If you decide it is, why not try spicing things up. Try and get him interested in sex again. Also, I think you should talk to him, tell him how you feel and that you need more sexual attention. If none of this works and you still want to carry on with the relationship in the hope it will get better, do what I've done and get a vibrator - they're always ready when you need them!!!
Good luck.
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