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anonymous
writes:Ok so I met this guy where i work and as soon as he smiled at me I melted. Anyway, we got talking and started to email each other, then he went off to mexico. he's in the middle of travelling he world, but we kept emailing off an on, nothing serious, but flirty nonetheless. Anyway last month i got an email saying he'd be back for a month near where i live and he believed he owed me a coffee. We met uo for drinks, kissed and he just couldnt stop looking at me and smiling. When i was a little freaked out by this and responded with 'What?!' he said 'nothing, just happy' anyway i left him that night and sent a text he said he hoped we'd meet up again really soon. unfortunately I texted too much and he said he didnt want a realtionship as he was working 16 hours a day and was going in a month. but he wanted to see me before he left.So last week, 2 days before he was due to leave I logged online and there he was. We met on friday night and after 2 hrs of pointless chit chat and a couple of drinks, kissing again. We moved through into his bedroom where I removed my shirt, but did not sleep with him. when i pointed out I couldnt do that due to time of month, he was really understanding and we just messed about. but he kept stopping and just looking at me in my eyes for a minute at a time. I've fallen for him. could this be mutual??
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2009): ok they renamed my question, he isnt a co-worker, i just met him there. also its obvious he wanted me, i just wanted to know his feelings. could it be deeper? is there any reason i should eventually expet him to come back??
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (31 August 2009):
 If he said straight out that he didn't want a relationship then there you have it. Guys don't usually lie about that. Anything you two have together is just probably going to be physical, if that's enough for you then go for it. If you want more I wouldn't look to this guy. Bowling partner...q you devil.
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