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I've fallen in love with my childhood friend, Its ruining our friendship, what should I do ?

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Question - (30 May 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 May 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

Okay since I was a kid me and this girl have been best friends. But, a little over a month ago I fell in love with her. I tried to ignore it but I just can't. Our friendship has totally changed. I can't be around her enough now and I still haven't told her how I feel. I think she is getting annoyed with me now because I'm getting overly jealous and kind of clingy. I can't tell her, but I don't think this will go away, what should I do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2006):

lay it on the table perhaps the reason she is frustrated is that she likes you the same way and it frustrates her that you fuss and dont ask her out yourself,noone wants to be alone maybe she and you are ment to be but by not telling her how you feel you are pushing her away in so many ways.try talking to her if shes your best friend you can work it out one way or another.good luck!if its meant to be it will!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2006):

If it was me, I would ask her to go out to a place with a nice view, then apologize for my lack of attendance as her friend. Afterwards, I would confess my feelings to her, then tell her why I have been the way I am. Then I will top it all off by telling her that I do not want to jeopardize our friendship, so for the time being, I wish to clear my head and do other things without her. When I am ready, I will call her up again and stuff.

Mind you, that may work only if you and her are mature enough.

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