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writes:I recently reconnected with some old friends of mine who live in a different city. This got me to thinking about another friend (someone I had dated in the past a couple years ago) who lives down the street from them. I wanted to get in touch with him and see how he's doing and honestly since he's been on my mind so frequently lately to see if there were possibly some feelings still there.I no longer have his cell phone number but I do know where he works. I sent a brief email, saying that he had crossed my mind and I was wondering how he's been doing, I also left my phone number in case he would like to get in touch. I sent that about a month ago, and still no reply. I couldn't get this off of my mind so I had actually called his work and left a message with his co-worker with my name and number about a week ago and he still hasn't responded. I get the feeling that the two times I had tried contacting him was enough, and I don't want to seem like a creepy stalker. Is there anything else I should do or is it time to give up and forget about it? I really can't seem to get this off of my mind for some reason. Is there a good chance that maybe he is avoiding me? Or a possibility I might end up hearing back in the near future?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2013): Hey there, well do you know for sure that is where he works and are you sure you have the right email for him? If so, then maybe you should give it a little bit more time, but I wouldn't let that hold you back from seeing other people. Do you know if he is in a relationship or seeing anyone? If he is, that is probably a reason he may not be getting back with you. Or maybe he just doesn't feel the way you do anymore (no offense). Best of luck.
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (7 March 2013):
You have tried to contact this boyfriend of a couple of years ago and received no reply. Please rember that a couple of years creats many changes in everyone lives.Enjoy the memories of the past and if he does not get in touch with you -leave the past in the past. Look to the FUTURE and enjoy. Best Luck .Nora B.
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