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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:In school I hang around in a big group of guys and girls. I have a lot of really close guy friends but I was always slightly closer to one of them in particular and although I just thought of him like a best buddie everyone started saying we should go out. I found out he liked me and I wanted to give us a go. Although it was going alright, he was very shy around me and I could always tell that it meant more to him than it did to me and so I ended it because I felt like I was using him. Since then, we've stayed very good friends. I love him. I know I do but its only in the same way I love the rest of my mates. I miss him when he isnt around and I worry if I don't know where he is. I always catch him looking at me and I know I cant help but look at him occasionally. Lately he's become a lot more confident with me and he even flirts occasionaly which is something he used to always struggle with and I love it and sometimes I'll flirt too but I just feel soooooo bad! I often think that maybe I could give it another go with him but I know that I dont really feel that way and I think a lot of this is guilt for hurting him and I really don't want to hurt him again. I've cried over this so many times and I was wondering if maybe I should tell him exactly how I feel about it all so he doesnt have to guess what I feel anymore because I must have confused him so many times! So do you think I should talk to him about it? And how do I go about it?!
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