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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been with my bf for a year and love him lots but recently I developed a crush on a guy at work. On Sunday things developed with my crush, and he told me he liked me and wants to have sex with me. I told him I like him but I'm in a relationship, and there was a lot of sexual tension, he kept teasing me and telling me how hard I was making him etc. It took me all the willpower I had to stop myself from cheating but I don't know how long I can control myself.My bf and I have been having trouble in the bedroom for a while now, I have a very high sex drive and his is practically non-existent, but he's told me that sometimes when I'm asleep he masterbates next to me, which is reaping havoc with my self-esteem. I know it's stupid to throw away a good relationship for the sake of a one night stand but I'm so drawn to this other guy, it's so good to know that men can still find me sexually desireable. I've never cheated on anyone before but I'm worried I might. What can I do?
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reader, countrygirlWV  +, writes (17 June 2008):
 Ithink maybe u should talk to ur bf. Ask him about having sex more often. Cause usually cheaten is never worth it and u can really regreat it so I would just try to talk to him and see what's going on cause u having an atraction to another probly is from the lac of sex just talk befor u do something ull regreat
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