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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:There's a new girl in the seventh grade in my school. Last year, i had a group of friends who i used 2 hang out wit but now their new group is themselves, the new girl, and the new girl's friends in her class- so now they are all friends together. Some time in September my friends went up and introduced themselves to the new girl. I wanted to go to but i was too scared. I still would like to be friends with her because i think she's nice and everything but i'm so scared especially now that it's coming to the end of the year and theyre all so close now i think it would be awkward to join in. I'm in 8th grade now and graduating in the beginning of june and would like to get to know her before i leave, and possibly keep in touch. I have 2 questions: How can i stop being so scared to talk to her, and is it too late to introduce myself? Reply to this Question
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reader, Neko_Deshou +, writes (27 March 2008):
 You can stop by taking a breath and stop holding your self back. Every time you think about 'oh no, what if.' or 'if I say this it could..' Just breath, I know it sounds simple, but its true. I learned that the hard way, take this from a pro. Fess up and talk to her ^^.
No its NEVER too late to become a friend, especially to someone 'new'
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008): It's never too late.
The lateness means you need to change your tact. Just say that you wanted to talk to her because you realised you never really had before and felt that she seemed like such a nice person that you wanted the chance to talk to her before you moved onto High-School.
Simple, easy and completely unobtrusive.
Flynn 24
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