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I've been stressed out for a few days now.

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Question - (27 October 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 October 2008)
A male Canada age 30-35, *ysterious writes:

I have been stressed a few days now..

about 2 weeks ago, I tried to finger my gf but she said it hurt so I stopped like probably 1cm in. And then afterwards, I rubbed my penis on the outside of her vagina for like 5 seconds. I rubbed it before cumming. Then around 4 days ago, she started having little blood and cramps on her left side.. it's not brown but normal red blood, just a little. And she still experiences light cramps on her left side, sometimes showing blood, sometimes with no blood. What are the chances of her being pregnant? Is she pregnant or could it be possible that there is something wrong with her genitals? We are really scared and stressed that she might be pregnant. We don't know how to tell our parents if she really is pregnant, and it was completely my fault in the first place for not using a condom. Please advice. Thanks

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2008):

If you never penetrated her with your penis and you came outside her vagina, it is highly unlikely that she is pregnant. Have her get tested anyway if you are concerned. And next time, wear a condom during any sexual activity so that both of you are protected and you don't have to worry about something like this =)

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A male reader, mysterious Canada +, writes (28 October 2008):

mysterious is verified as being by the original poster of the question

To add on to dat, I did not penetrate her in anyway wutsoever and she said the blood is like from the vagina like a period but small

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2008):

you havent said whether or not you penetrated her during or after cumming and whether or not the blood is vaginal or from her urethra.

the fact that it hurt before the incident and is now bleeding suggests that she may have an infection of some sort. your best bet is to go to the doctors, who can confirm whether or not she is pregnant and if there is anything wrong that requires further treatment. the blood is probably coming from a urinary tract infection, which would also explain cramps and blood, or an infection of the vagina itself such as thrush, so it is best to get a doctor to have a look at her really.

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