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writes:I meet a guy for the past six month now,he's an engineer,and and i'm begining to fall in love with him,but the problem is i don't know his house,we stay 2geda in hotel sometimes,and i have asked him several times his house,but he kept on telling me,that he stays in his family house that he doesn't need disturbance.he travels alot sometimes a month.i feeling he's a ghost or he have a family elsewhere,and i'm thinking am decieving myself with him.please i need an advice on this. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2015): Check the ring-finger, girlfriend. How many times does a guy have to make a lame excuse not to invite you to his house, before you smell "married?"
Put the brakes on the falling in-love part. He doesn't need disturbance at his family's house? You might be more of a disturbance to his WIFE!!! You've got yourself a certified player on your hands!
Put on your prettiest boots, and kick his ass to the curb!
That's American for dump his ass!!!
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reader, WhenCowsAttack  +, writes (19 February 2015):
Yup, this guy is very obviously married. Dump him quickly, before you waste even more of your heart on him.
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reader, Keeley345  +, writes (19 February 2015):
He should have showed you his home by now. I'd be worried he has a wife or maybe lives in an ugly or dirty house. Maybe he's embarrassed to show you his home.Some men don't know how to cook and clean for themselves so maybe his house is dirty. Either way he is not taking the next big step in the relationship, and that is inviting you home. Try talking to him once more. Say something like "I really like you and would like to see your home. It'll also save us money on hotels etc. If your house is dirty, don't worry I won't judge you. A lot of men don't know how to clean their house and I will help you if you want me to. If it's some other reason why you won't take me to your home, Please tell me otherwise we can't move forward in our relationship and we'll end up ruining it"Good luck!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (19 February 2015):
 He sees you at hotels? THAT screams MARRIED!
And he said he is staying with family and doesn't need disturbance? So he SEES you as disturbance?
Sounds weird.
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