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writes:Hi, I'm Chloe and I've been having some trouble with my boyfriend in the bedroom. We've tried to have sex twice and on both occasions it was too painful (for me) for his penis to go in to my vagina. Is this normal? What can I do? I'm also wondering about how to reach an orgasm because I've never experienced one before, and I've heard that a woman has to teach herself how to orgasm, and was just curious how about doing that. Please help. Thanks. xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008): It would be very difficult to answer your question as you did not give enough information. If you did not have enough or proper foreplay before attempting intercourse, you could experience this type of pain and difficulty. Intercourse could be painful in the beginning even when you are properly lubricated.
If he just tried to stick his penis in your vagina without preparing you for intercourse you would experience this pain.
If you and he kissed and fondled and he you got very aroused, and he used his fingers to penetrate your vagina and help to loosen your vaginal walls with this kind of penetration first, then you would be better prepared to receive his penis, and with proper vaginal lubrication it would be less painful and after his penis is inserted you would feel the pleasure of intercourse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008): You probably need to have a little more fore-play before attempting sex, it'll make it much more comfortable for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008): Chole
u need to relax more, and tell him to go faster and moan more. First of all fore play that always works with my bf and i.
Give ur bf a blow job, tease him
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