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female
age
30-35,
*ULIE MIKE
writes: HEY,,av been dating my man for five months and now i feel like we are growing apart,when he texts me i feel like not replying as in i feel bored but i feel i love him still.but theres this guy i chat with he makes me happy i feel like i feel something for him nowadays my mans thought are occupied by his thoughts i think about this new guy we have done nothing but i hang out with him i feel i like him alot i dont know what to do i dont want to cheat but if i go to this new guy will i be rushing and leaving my man for no reason.
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reader, Boredandsad +, writes (6 July 2012):
If you don't feel you want to be with him and you might really like this new guy I say give it a try. You haven't been with the other guy that long so if your not happy now would be the time to leave. If you choose to stay with him I think you will atleast need to talk to him to find out what the problem is and fix it so that you can be happy with him again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2012): We're all human and people change, so no one can blame you for feeling this way if you're not happy with your current boyfriend, that's just life.
But relationships require 100% of a persons heart and commitment, and after what I've gathered from your question, you feel that for neither your boyfriend or option B. In my personal opinion, single is probably the best option for you at the minute.
Having uncertain feelings for one person is bad enough, without adding another person to the mix and feeling torn between the two.
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