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writes:I've been broken up with my ex for almost a year, we're still friends, but I guess not "truly friends." I still think about him almost everyday, and I feel regret. He's had a girlfriend for a while now, and I'm feel the need to tell him how I'm feeling, but I'm afraid of what might happen after, if we'll still be friends. Is there anything I should tell him, or just keep everything to myself. Please help.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (30 April 2008):
If he has a new girlfriend and you turn up and tell him you love him he is going to cut contact with you. Imagine if you had a boyfriend who's ex turned up, you'd tell him to get rid of her.
You regret losing this guy but there is nothing you can do about it unfortunately apart from learning what mistakes you made so it doesn't happen again.
Get out and meet new people and distract yourself from him. Hang out with your friends and enjoy single life.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, karyn79 +, writes (30 April 2008):
 unfortuantly, sometimes telling the truth about feelings is the worst thing you can do. If you like what you have with him now (friends) then personally I wouldnt tell him, especially if he has another girl in his life now. He may see it as spite.The best thing you can do, is find another man that will love you, then you would of moved on from the ex, and maybe become better friends. I know this can be hard to move on, but its the best thing to do.The other option is, rather than tell him, right them down, that way, they are out of your head and in the bin.
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