| I've become needy, don't want to lose him. Please give me advice. |
| | Question - (16 August 2012) | 0 Answers - (Newest, ) | A
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writes:Hello!I need some advice! So I had a relationship for three years and that had a very messy ending wherein he left me for someone else out of the blue. After that I guess I've had trust issues to some extent.Now I've been in a relationship for around 6 months now. The first 4-5 months were pure bliss with barely any problems and we were just always dying to see each other. He used to express affection all the time and wanted me around a lot. Now however he barely ever expresses affection and doesn't even seem that excited to meet and stuff. We spoke about this when I got drunk and brought it up and he said that it isn't a conscious decision that he's made and that of course he to be with me. Last week got high though and told me he loves me a lot. I'm getting mindf***ed.I'm getting paranoid inside but I don't want to show it because I don't want to appear needy. I want to believe that if he says he loves me and wants to be with me (when I ask him i.e.) that he really does.I give him tonnes of attention and I'm always doing things for him, not because I want to please him but because that's just how I am when I really care about someone.Generally in life he's not that excited a person also so I don't know... I just don't want to be this needy clingy person who's always worrying about her boyfriend bailing on her. I don't want to lose him because of this. He's sensed that I'm becoming needy I think so I want to completely get rid of it. I feel awful that I've become so emotional!
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