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writes:I need advice just over 3 weeks ago my ex dumped me I embrassed her at the her prom and got really drunk and she said that she no longer see's me in that way any more but how could she go off me in the space of a few short hours. We were together for just over a year and a half and she really loved me at one point because we broke up twice before and she was realy upset and we got back together however now she dosen't want to get back together and she likes somebody else, how could she get over me soooo fast need adive thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2008): She obviously realised your relationship was going nowhere and was already over you quite some time ago. It's my guess that your getting drunk and embarassing her was the perfect excuse she'd been looking for to finish with you.
Learn from this. You'll find another girl soon enough. Just enjoy your single status while you can. I'd recommend at least a year to get over her and spread your wings and wild oats before getting too serious with anyone. Eventually you'll find Miss Right, or better still, Miss Dead Right!
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (23 July 2008):
 Girls like to be able to admire and respect their boyfriends; if your relationship was already rocky, then your behavior at the prom just pushed her over the edge. She probably now has a very negative image of you drunk and misbehaving and cannot erase it anymore. She's lost any respect she had for you.
She's moved on to another guy because she's ready to, sorry, but that's the hard truth. Just take it as a very difficult life lesson, and try to move on.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (23 July 2008):
 You hit the nail on the head "She found someone else already". Thats how she has got over you so quickly. But darling if you have broken up a few times already something wasnt right was it?
The only thing that you can do is to move on. You will find another girl, maybe even better than this one. Give yourself some time XXX
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reader, Curiousbynature +, writes (23 July 2008):
Do you realize that us women once we are over a guy, we know where it hurts the most. That is one of the first things I do with a guy after I have broken up with him, I go find another one. Its not that we love that person we find, we just need someone to occupy our time in order to not think about you. That is just how we are put together. You should do the same thing. Go out and have fun with your friends and maybe pick up a lucky lady! Good luck. Sorry, sometimes women are ruthless.
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