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writes: I am now aged 24, working,but have been seing this married man for three years,who happens to have looked after me well, both financially and socially.Of late he's always talking about his wife and family, how he needs to get home early. I have decided to let him go.I've tried ignoring him, not answering his calls and going out of town for weekends, but he still keeps calling me and saying we should talk.Please help me get rid of him. It's high time I started my life.
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (23 June 2005):
 You've decided well. Congratulations! If only some other women who write in their questions were as smart as you.
Now you only have to be more determined.
Change your phone number. Give it to your parents and your friends and instruct them that you have a potential stalker and that they're not permitted to give it to anyone else.
I don't mean to suggest that this guy is dangerous. He doesn't sound that way, but he is persistant, and given your history together, he might try to keep luring you back. You don't want that and you've decided wisely not to allow it. So take the big step. Change your email address too, if you need to. It'll give you a renewed feeling of freedom and determination.
Then, try not to be home too much. Hang with friends. Get a new hobby. Walk a dog (yours or someone else's). Go to the gym after work. Do anything that makes you feel good about yourself, and you'll be attracting new friends and interested men in no time!
Good luck. :)
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