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writes: everytime i have sex i get sore after 10 minites into it. its happened with 2 people now, and its unconfortable to do it. then in the middle of it i dont fell like i want it and its not pleasurable anymore. also i get swollen which is awful. . . Reply to this Question
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (16 July 2006):
 Hi, this could be a couple of things, one your not lubricated enough hun, to remedy this maybe try some lubricating products. ky jelly is a good one and can be applied in a sexy way so doesnt have to take away the moment, ask your partner to do it or do it yourself. Also you could be one of the few that is allergic to the latex on the condoms that could result in some swelling. Maybe try a different type of condom.. they do some that are for those that are allergic to them, you can either maybe try at your local chemist, even maybe try a differnet brand, or pop along to your local planning centre if your in the uk and they will be able to advise on different types and also supply them free!
Take care and if you need any further advice please feel free to ask.
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reader, Granny +, writes (16 July 2006):
 Two things, it sounds to me very much as if you are sleeping with your partners without being sufficiently sexually aroused. You do not mention your age, but you mention 2 partners.
If you are sleeping with them to keep them as BFs before you are emotionally and physically prepared to love them, or care for them, your body will betray you every time. If you do not care for them deeply in your head and heart, your body will dry up and refuse to let them in.
On the other hand, if you are a mature girl with deep and meaningful relationships, there may be a problem such as polyps, in which case, you need to visit your gynaecologist who can recommend treatment for this harmless but disturbing condition.
Wishing you the best of luck :)
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reader, willywombat +, writes (15 July 2006):
 You probably need more lubrication. Are you using condoms? If so get some KY jelly (NOT vaseline) which should improve your situation somewhat.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2006): I think you need to find out why you feel this way. Are you no longer excited when you get sore? (I feel this sometimes) are you not lubed up enough and you feel like your getting carpet burn (lol. sorry for my wording) Is it the way of your positions? maybe you could try something different? (be in top, if you're not already). Once you figure out why you are feeling this way then you can attack the problem. Good luck.
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