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writes:Hi ok so me and this guy were together for a year he tells me he wants to be friends .... So i agree then he says that he wants to stay in my life we now have been having sex alot like every weekend so its like we never broke up why is this happening.?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone this was very helpful and i am now going to leave him alone until im ready to be friends without the sex involved the only reason he wanted to be just friends was bc i was to good for him and to nice also we didnt ever really argue alot and thats something he was used to in the past he say he wants to get his heart broken a few times before he talks to someone like me .... that really hurts me cause i really did love him and he acts like we never happened i feel like he just used me it sucks cause he was the first guy i have had sex with everything is now a big wake up call for me ...... THANKS AGAIN EVERYONE I GREATLY APPRECIATE IT
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reader, anthony bartal +, writes (8 August 2011):
 Knowing most guys these days, he's either just wanting you fo sex or there's anothr girl he's interested in but won't have sex with him. If I were you, I'd call it quits and look for someone else that's actually worth your time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2011):
Yes, your letting it happen.
Tell him your busy weekends now, and make plans to be out having fun with your friends.Your a single girl, he let you go, why should you be his 'friend with benefits' when he doesn't want a relationship with you.Cut all contact for now till you can get over him.
One day he will probably meet somebody else and then where does that leave you? x
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2011): seems to me like he just wants sex and wants to date other girls i would just let him go.and date other guys
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reader, Char02 +, writes (8 August 2011):
Most likely throughout the week, he's having sex with somebody else. He still wants the physical part of a relationship with you, but not the total package. You're better than that! Go be with someone that wants ALL of you!!
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (8 August 2011):
 Its happening because you are allowing it to happen. Ask yourself why you are having sex every weekend with somebody who doesnt want to be in a relationship with you.
You are convienient for sex. Tell him to buzz off, you are better than that. And then go find a new boyfriend, one who does want you for more than the weekend romp! Good luck!
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