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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:So around the beginning of summer i ran away with two friends an met their friend, he is the best guy i have ever met, i talked to him on the phone all the time an facebook an msn an he came down for a couple a days, btw he lives like 2 hours away from me, i really like him A LOT!!! hes kinda perfect for me, i can be myself with him an tell him everything an he makes me laugh when im in tears the problem thou hes like a total player or used to be, an my cousin is like in love with him an so is my best friend an his past relationships well not so great.I really care for him but its hard when my cousin and best friend are like after him too, today i was on my cousin's facebook trying to help her out when i found a love message she sent him confessing how she feels, it was a while ago but im worried an when ever i talk about him to my best friend an how i feel she acts all weird an gets pissed off, shes now apparently dating someone secretly but she says its a girl but idk coz now he wont talk to me any more an he talks to my best friend an my cousin.I don't know what to do any more i still have some serious feelings for this guy but so did my cousin an maybe my bestie I don't know if they still do but its tearing me apart all i want is him... I think i might actually love him coz the last time i felt this way was with my EX but its kinda different coz my EX was an asshole and the other guy is a year older and actually listens an talks to me and its just more comforting then my ex an i know that unlike my ex he would never break my heart cause if he broke my heart i wouldnt know what to do.Sure i have mended my heart before but if he broke my heart that would be too much pain. It's killing me now that hes not talking to me. He ignores my messages now an all i want is to talk to him an tell him how i feel an how i never want him to leave my life an how i cant be friends any longer coz just being friends is kinda pissing me off now. I know he doesnt want to ruin our friendship but if we were to date i would promise him that i wouldn't be like that, i would always stay his friend and try to stay his girlfriend but I don't know if I will ever get my chance now. I NEED HELP SERIOUSLY TOO MUCH EMOTIONAL INSANESS!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2009): Sweetheart I have a daughter close to your age and I am seriously dreading this part. I remember being young and THINKING I was in love. Trust me slow down and know there are more boys out there and if he likes you he would not ignore you. I got married at 17 and now divorced at 32. Trust me when I say this, you need someone that will treat you right and if this guy is ignoring you he is not treating you right. There is an old adage if you love someone thing set it free and if it comes back to you, you will know it belongs to you. Let him be and if he really likes you and he wants to be with you he will find his way to you. Have fun your young!!
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