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writes:i don't want to be with my boyfriend, we are in a relationship of 7 months and i want to break up now before it get too deepi'm not leaving him to find someone better, it just impossible to have future for us and i no longer love him.but a lot of people tell me he will get clingy at first that it will make me feel horrible and then he will move on and you will miss him and want him back and regret your decision.i'm too scared to break up with him, he makes me promise to stay with him and all but it just not working.should i break up?14 minutes ago - 4 days left
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2010): Hi there, breaking up with someone is always a hard decision... but staying with someone because your unsure of what is out there, is definitely not the reason to be with the person...its something that we all have to face.. fear of uncertainty on wether you will find someone better or someone worse is or not finding someone at all is one of the few things people are scared of... fear of being alone..
I am not a guru or anything but certainly have had true to life experiences.. if love/companionship/care is not the reason why you are with the person, then you shouldn't be with that person on a level beyond friendship.
no one is perfect but dating is all about trying.. =) if it works it works,.. grow old together if it doesn't then..time to face our fear and life itself.. =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2010): Hi there, breaking up with someone is always a hard decision... but staying with someone because your unsure of what is out there, is definitely not the reason to be with the person...its something that we all have to face.. fear of uncertainty on wether you will find someone better or someone worse is or not finding someone at all is one of the few things people are scared of... fear of being alone..
I am not a guru or anything but certainly have had true to life experiences.. if love/companionship/care is not the reason why you are with the person, then you shouldn't be with that person on a level beyond friendship.
no one is perfect but dating is all about trying.. =) if it works it works,.. grow old together if it doesn't then..time to face our fear and life itself.. =)
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reader, xnickx  +, writes (14 September 2010):
 "i don't want to be with my boyfriend"
Thats it, that said it. END IT. Both of you will be happy for it. He will be happy because he can find a girlfriend that will actually care about him, and you will find someone that makes you happy.
Never compromise your feelings for the sake of anyone else. ever.
Nick.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2010): You say that you want to break up before you get in too deep. If you really don't love him anymore then you need to break up with him. No matter what the consequences, you don't love him, so don't string him along because you are scared. go for it, in the long term it will be the best thing to do.
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