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writes: Please help! I need to know if I am overreacting. My B/F doesn't look at porn on the internet, but he has a married friend from work who constantly sends emails with video clips, or pictures of either half naked women or plain porn! I found out that some of the emails were like that and got upset. Some of them he couldnt open because we didnt have the right program, but after he asked me one day "we dont have this program do we?" I asked him why and tried to help open it later when he wasnt home, it was totally a porn video. I asked my B/F why his friend send him that stuff, he argued that its not all like that. What he doesn't know is that I have looked at his emails and about 90% of them are and very explicit! I feel bad about looking but really wanted to see if he was telling me the truth, (he has lied in the past about little things). I am most upset with the friend sending them, but I also wish my b/f would tell him to stop sending them....I even asked him why he wont ask him to stop sending them but he said " he send other things too, and most of them are pretty funny". I think thats a bunch of crap. I think the truth is my b/f likes them.By the way he uses my computer for everything and to check his email.Am I overreacting? Please help to sort this out and get my head straight. Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2006): No your not overreacting, tell him to stop or your leaving and mean it
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2006): It doesn't matter whether you're over-reacting or not. The 'problem' is, you are uncomfortable with him seeing naked pics and vids of other women. So the most obvious and prudent thing to do is get your point across. Whether he accepts your wishes to cease looking at other women in explicit depictions is his choice. If the 'problem' persists, you have a choice - stay and compromise, or leave him.
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