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writes:My friend for a while just told me that he's really feeling me. But he has a situation dealin with his ex-girlfriend. He says that he don't know if he's feeling her more or me. I was just wondering if he using me to get over his ex, because that's what I'm feelin. Should I feel this way?
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reader, kliciouss +, writes (8 January 2009):
 this situation seems similar to me, except i am the ex. my ex and i broke up for about 3 months and then he found a new girl. the thing is while he was not with me anymore, we were still hooking up two months after. and within the middle month of that 3 months, he was seeing another girl. so basically he was messing with both at once. i don't know if this might be your case. i advise you to be cautious. i was really considering being back with him because he wanted to work it out and he claims he still loves me, then he goes off with another girl. this girl is totally different from me. maybe he sees the difference in you and likes that better than his ex. but either way, it is dangerous to stay close to him. what if he goes back to his ex? you'll look like an idiot.. rebound. if he is saying "i don't know if he's feeling her more or you" then that shows that he wants both of you. if you still want to pursue him, still talk to him and stuff but don't see it as a definite possible relationship. untill he completely stops talking about his ex (unless you ask) and devotes his time with you, he is not over her.
maybe he is a good guy and IS really confused, but either way if he really was a good guy, he wouldn't leave you hanging.
goodluck.
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reader, nokutenda  +, writes (7 January 2009):
he may be using you to get over his ex or wants to make sure its really is over btwn him and x
don't act like bf & gf(like making out)till he has fallen for you and is no longer talking about ex.
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