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writes: I Just need some advice..33Im 17 and last year i met this guy..He was 27 at the time and we just clicked..We just got eachother straight away..He was the most amazing person i had ever met. I fell in love and i think he did too but he never said anything and neither did i =[Anyway He moved and its been almost a year since i have seen him face to face. When he moved i was crushed but funny things started to happen..Like he found my email adress when he wasnt even looking and he emailed me and i was so happy..We would email eachother and he gave me his number but ive always been too scared to call..Ive been in love with him for almost 2 years..I thought i would never get over him..But as we stopped emailing eachother i started to realise that he probably has forgotten about me and i have been trying so hard to forget about him. About 2 months ago though i was doing work experience and i met this guy their and he reminded me so much of him..The way he spoke..The way he laughed..His personality..He even looked like him and was the same age..That afternoon i was so upset cos the guy i had met made me think about him once again and i realised that my feelings hadnt dissapeared i had only been hiding them..I was so upset that afternoon that i had let the love of my life slip away..But that afternoon i checked my email and after 2 months of nothing there was an email from him..It was like it was all planned out or something..I emailed him back but never got another reply...The past 2 months have been good i thought i was over him but last night i dunno why but i just started thinking about him again and realised how much i missed him..Then this morining when i woke up i checked my email and i nearlly burst into tears..There was an email from him..Is this just a coincedence or is somebody trying to tell me somthing?? Is this fate?? The timing of everything scares me.. I still 3 himI havent emailed back yet and im not sure if im going to.. Im sick of all this false hope..Should i just tell him how i feel?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhat if i said he was engaged?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2006): I don't believe in fate or that someone is trying to tell you something, I think he has just been on your mind partly because he was the last person you really thought you had feelings for and he moved out of your life, so you are left to wonder what if....that is a very human condition but does not mean that he is the one for you.
That said, if you still miss him and he is still staying in touch with you, he is still interested in how you are doing at the very least....I would just call him or e-mail him and say nothing more than you would like to see him again, and see if he wants to do the same, then I would take it a step at a time....I wouln't blurt out that you love him, because are you really sure that you do? After 2 years of being apart you both have probably changed, and who knows how you really connect with him now or how you might feel about him now....just get together and talk...Good Luck with it all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2006): Go ahead put together an email of how you feel and then wait. If you here nothing then finally put him out of your head and move on. If he gets in touch then all is well, keep me posted i would love to know how you get on with him.
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