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writes:My Long distance guy and I have been communicating and see each other once a month, about 6 months ago the last time i visited for a week and he had been behaving very distant but his excused was because he is getting too close to me so he says he doesnt know what direction of his life is going.... this last sunday he called me drunk saying that he loves me to death that he is falling in love (i dont know if thats true or not because he was drunk) later that night i never heard from him again and now its been 5 days and nothing... what should i do?? i love him so much.... but i dont know why he just stop calling me, he never did that before.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2009): I'm having an issue-- had a great second date with a man (who lives close by) and he hasnt contacted me since he left me Tuesday night --- thought perhaps it was the holidays (he left a few days before Thanksgiving) but its day #5 and nothing-- I sent him an email the morning after to thank him for a great time, then 2 days later (Thanksgiving) sent him a small Thanksgiving card (nothing), then finally, 4 days later, wrote and asked him if everything was ok. He hasnt been on the dating site we met on, so perhaps he's either not checking his mail or avoiding me- not sure which but its very upsetting to think all is well, to become intimate, and hear how great you are to just have a guy dissapear on you like that. common courtesy dictates some kind of phone call .. I think alot of men just dont have good social/emotional skills and choose the cowards way out-- also societal upbringing is teaching us all to just "pack it up and leave" and stay mobile, instead of working things out... which is just par for the course for the degradation of the nuclear family!!!So sorry you're going through this, but you're not alone hon!
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reader, icpa +, writes (29 November 2009):
icpa is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI lost the hope in waiting for his call so i guess he is not interested anymore! :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2009): Have you tried contacting him? I would ask him point blank what is going on in his mind and be direct.. Maybe he is worried that you are falling hard for him and does not want to hurt you as he is not sure of his feelings yet. I do not want to see your heartbroken from a guy that is afraid to bring it to the next level. Please keep us posted.
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