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*onfuseddteen1996
writes:hey i need some advice, im 15 and my boyfriends 16 im in an awkward position because his best mate likes me and keeps sayin im fit and gorjuss + my boyfriends bestmate is going out with my bestfriend,shes fell out with me and my bf aint to happy either my best friend lets call her chloe, my bfs best friend lets call him kieran + my bf lets call him dylan.chloee and me have both been in relationships for just over a year. I've had sex with dylan but chloe hasnt had sex at all so she thinks she can call me a slag which isnt fair? basically this is what happened, id been with kieran for about 6 months when we broke up it was a bad and painful one it took me about two months to get over him. when i started goin out with dylan id just turned 14. when chloe went out with kieran i wasnt bothered but now because she thinks she can call me a slag and to be honest i dont know how someone can be in a relationship for over a year and not have sex?anyway the other day i was with chloe we started arguing and called me a slag so i slapped and punched her i regret it.when she told her boyfriend he got all mad and told my boyfriend, he started screaming at me and in the end ended up pushing me backwards, i just ran off.i dont understand how to make everything normal give me some advice please xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2011): It's good that you're friends again. Maybe you shouldn't tell her about the kiss/bra thing?...just as long as your BFs best mate knows where he stands and that it isn't to happen again!
And it's also good that your BF doesn't always act like that too!
Hope all works out for you :)
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reader, confuseddteen1996 +, writes (14 June 2011):
confuseddteen1996 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you he doest act like tht i just think it was because he was annoyed with me and i went to my bestfriend and appoligised, and were mates again but i havent told her tht wen i went to her house to tell him he kissed me and undid my bra but i was trying to get him off me but any way thanks for the advice......
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2011): firstly... a relationship isn't just about sex. Especially about your age. You're a bit too young to be worrying about pregnancy and the likes. But it's not my place to lecture!Go to your friend and talk to her about her calling you a slag...explain how it makes you feel. If she's a proper friend, she will respect you for coming to her, and will act like the friend she should be. You should also apologise for hitting her.You need to talk to your BFs best mate and tell him that he's acting inappropriately, and neither you nor your boyfriend appreciate it. He should be concentrating on his own girlfriend. However, you do have to remember that you were once together, so it's normal for him to think of you in that way.Lastly, you said your BF screamed at you and pushed you back... does he always act like that? If so, you should consider leaving the relationship. Violence shouldn't be a part of a relationship!
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