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writes: i fell in love with a guy at my school who had a girlfriend, i know i shouldn't of but i got drunk at a school ball and slept with him, i felt awful but he charmed me and we continued to meet up. he eventually broke up wiv his girlfirend, but she dumped him. he then asked if we could go steady an i was really excited but he then went on holiday to hongkong for 2 and a half months, leavin me in a limbo situation. hes been away a month and a half now an the shine has worn off. i talk to him on msn but all wants to talk about is sex and refuses to tell his ex-girlfriend about me, and the sex he talks about is all dirty, kinky sex not meant with love and it makes me feel used. i've also met this guy whom i have already slept with, he really likes me and when i told him i wouldn't have sex with him again because it was too complicated he said it was fine and just wanted to be with me and talk to me. i feel he really values me for me and i can be myslef around him. but going out with him would mean losing some of my friends who blame me for the breakup of the other guy im meant to be seeing. its all such a mess and i've been such a slag, how can i put it right and be happy?
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reader, mgmf62604 +, writes (3 August 2006):
Do what makes you happy. If the other guy has not told his ex about you than how could it be your fault that they broke up? If you really like this other guy and he's willing to do whatever it takes to make you happy and that you really do feel like you can be yourself around him, than take a chance. Plus, since the one guy is gone for a few months and all he wants to talk about is sex than you can probably bet that he's not been all that lonely while he's been gone. All I can say is do you want a sex-oriented relationship where everything revolves around sex or do you want a relationship where you're happy and it revolves around the two of you? Who cares if a couple of your friends decide they don't wanna hang around with you anymore, sometimes you must sacrifice to achieve. If you believe that this other guy will treat you right and you feel like you would have a good relationship than go for it. No one can stop you, but you.
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