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writes: I have a hard time getting off with blow jobs unless watching porn at the same time, low testosterone I think. I like to get my wife off even though it is harder for me. I have to have a lot of foreplay and outside stimulus to make it happen. She seems to get tired of waiting but I don't want to take any more drugs, too expensive besides. Help!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2008): Hi, my boyfriend doesn't masturbate (I know this sounds weird but he doesn't have the time and may masturbate maybe once or twice a month) and it takes me only minutes to get him off! It's great!!! All my other boyfriends nearly gave me lockjaw, it was such a huge project to get them off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2008): Help her. Let her work on you until she starts to get tired and then you can masturbate until you are close, while she excites you in any other way that you both like. When you are close then let her take over again. Works great for my wife and I, even when I was in my 40s. My wife would love to be able to finish the job all by herself and occasionally does, but she knows that she just can't most of the time.
I have read on some other message boards that this is not uncommon for a lot of men. And it doesn't get any easier for us older guys.
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