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writes:i am a working woman, and i ve been in service for 15 yrs now. my problem is i have no friends as of now. this year i ve made few old office friedns but they are never frank with me though am very nice n frank to them. i don't understand what could be the problem. infact, i share everything little thing with them, but they never seems to like me internely. when i invite them for lunch/dinner, they never show up. i feel so ashemed of myself and feel so down. what sould i do to get close to them. pl. help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007): act like you dont care and do share loads of stuff about ya self
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2007): I am the same way. When I am tring to be friends with someone, I tend to open up to them about everything. I also dont make friends easily & I don't know why. They never seem to make an effort to get to know me. To bad we don't live closer, we could be friends.
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reader, Midge  +, writes (24 August 2007):
 First of all, dont be ashamed of who you are! If people cant like you for who you are, then they are not people you want to be friends with. Trust me, it never works!!
Secondly, I dont know you, so dont know what kind of person you are, but from what you have said, you seem to be a nice person. So perhaps the problem isnt with you, its with them!
Perhaps you should look outside the office for friendship? Join some clubs or start a team sport! Something that gets you out of the office environment and out of the house for a couple of hours a week. You meet people that enjoy the same things as you, and you will find you have the capacity of making a LOT of new friends!
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