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writes:I'm fairly confident with girls, that isn't the issue. I've met one that I have been dating for about 4 months, and damn I want to keep her for a long time. It seems I have a lot of insecurities; I have that 'natural jealousy' when she talks about her ex-boyfriend, or going out to a club where I know she is going to get hit on by lots of other guys. Can someone give me advice to control this feeling, or even get rid of it so that I can genuinely seem like I don't care and that I'm not jealous?Thanks for all your input!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): It's only natural to be jealous . I am very insecure about my boyfriend.... he has a myspace and all these girls always say he's hott and say "hey babe" and all this stuff and I hate it !!! it's only natural. You just gotta know that if she really loves you then she she will ignore the guys and only have eyes for you .... It's ok to be jealous but just don't let it show in public ... tell her about it and see what she says.... that's all the advice I have for you ...I hope it helped a bit ...
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reader, Fasion victims  +, writes (4 April 2008):
 hey
I know what you mean and dont worry its not nesserely insicurities. When me and my ex boyfriend split i thought it was all my fault. I thought he was cheting with other girls and all this i was filled with insicurities but things changed. i think you should talk to your girl anf tell her how you feel. Be carefull though us girls dont like to much jelousy. Tell her that there is no doubt that you trust her its the other guys you dont trust. Tell her how you feel about her that you like her and dont want to loose her for a long time. Just open yourself up to your feelings but remember hers.
goodluck p.s tell me how it goes your one of our first.
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