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writes: ok this is going to be long but ill try to make it short. I know this guy lil over two years and i think I’m in love with him. when I first met him it was when I was junior in high school and he was senior. Soon after I met him strange things started to happen ..Like we started to work at the same place at the same time, and not even after 2 months my parents bought us a house right next to his. And I never knew where he lived.. well as we started to work together he would flirt me all the time and we would talk and one day he just kissed me ..but then when we found out that we live next door to each other he said that we are meant to be. so 3 weeks after we started to date he had to leave for collage that was Aug. 2004 we had been couple of months together and we use to call each other but I had issue and I was scared that he was cheating on me. So I broke up.. We didn’t talk till May of 2005. When he would come from collage he wouldn’t talk to me because he was mad at me. So as I said he came home in May and he started to talk 2 me again. In mean time I had bf but he wouldnt give up on me .He would call me all the time send me messages so I broke off with my current bf. it was the best we got more intimate but i wasn’t ready for sex.. I wasn’t virgin but I felt its not time yet. It would kill him when I would say no.. I had so much fun and I cant even say by words and then just before he was going to leave for collage again we kind of became distant. We started fighting and I found out he was sleeping with some girls and he was dating some and I was mad and sad. The night before he left for collage me and him got in huge fight.. Some girls called me and told me that he was with them any many things that was hurting me so I wanted to prove if they where right. I asked him but he denied. So I was kind of naïve and I try to set him up but actually those girls set me up so we got in huge fight because of that. again we haven’t talked for about 2 months and when he came for thanksgiving Nov. 2005 home he started to talk to me but we didn’t get back together. Before Christmas I started to date again this new guy but I cheated him with this guy.. His birthday was in the December so it was good again. in Feb. it was my birthday and he didn’t call me and I got so mad at him..sp i didnt talk to him till march of 2006 but then we started to talk again.. OK this summer 2006 we got back together and this summer was good and I slept with him.. I felt it was right time and I don’t regret it because I waited 2 yr. and now he still havent told me how he feels, I mean he didn’t tell me if he loves me or not.. So I’m worried if I’m just summer affair even thought we had know each other for longer time and what I should do about this situation should I continue or just stop waisting my time..helppp pleasee
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reader, Amethyst  +, writes (11 September 2006):
 Wow... that's my only reaction. I'm a bit confused, so bare with me if this is a bit off base.
If you were paranoid that he was cheating on you, and he had never shown any sort of action leaning even remotely towards cheating on you... you were in the wrong with the break up. On the other hand, if you thought he was because maybe... you caught him kissing another girl that you'd never been introduced to, then you were right.
You two have went through a lot together... well... you weren't talking but... if you two have both apologized to and forgave each other for the mistakes in the past, and then looked past it and got together, I'd say you've got something strong there. But love is a commitment, not just a word. So if you said that you loved him and he didn't respond, he's obviously weighing it out mentally before he runs his mouth about something he's not sure of. If you didn't say anything at all, he could still be doing that, or he could be afraid to say it in fear it'd drive you away (like it does MANY people). Have you decided for yourself that you are in FACT in love with him, and NO other person? If not, how could you expect him to yet?
The strange events do make it seem apparent you two are meant to be together, but don't let that be the only factor in deciding that. If you feel like you can be yourself 100% when you're around him, and that he'd love you for who you were, that's a prime factor. Also, there are more minor things like: interests, hobbies, backgrounds, past experiences, ideals, beliefs, etc, etc.
Be careful with love sweetie.
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reader, rachyg +, writes (11 September 2006):
 well........dat was a very long story i dont fink he knows wot he wants i obviously he feels sumfin for u as u do for him because other wise use wudnt be goin bk 2 each other all the tym.
i fink maybe it myt get more serious because use seem 2 always end up 2geva i mean i dont no this guy and how he acts but if he always cums bk 2 u he must like u u just need 2 ask him how he feels other wise u will neva no ! x
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