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It just seems like I have no chance with him but I don't know how to get over him.

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Question - (19 March 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 March 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ilAngle writes:

This may not seem a huge problem but it is to me..

I've never really ever fancied anyone (apart from celebrities) but now there's this boy in my school, he's 16 so two years older than me who I talk to him and I have real feelings for him.

He has a gilfriend and one of my frinds (who he has slept with) also likes him. It just seems like I have no chance with him but I don't know how to get over him. I love talking to him and he is very flirty and stuff and to be honest I don't want to get over him because we get on so well and he is SO FIT! I mean proper lol write back, I need some help much love x x x

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A female reader, LilAngle United Kingdom +, writes (26 March 2008):

LilAngle is verified as being by the original poster of the question

one of my "friends" told him i liked him!!!!

and when he asked me i couldnt lie to him so i said i used to lol! then i added i still think yur buff tho and he came back wid oh fair anough yu aint bad yurself! does dis mean anything..?? and also do yu think that if i sometyms tex him first it makes me look a bit clingy and obvious?? Really confused here!!! x x x

Btw thanks for the awnsers so far x x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2008):

If you really like this guy you should watch & wait until he is single. If you try to hook up with him now, while he still has a girlfriend, he might hook up with you but it will only be temporary. If you want him for a long term boyfriend then you need to be the type of girl he will respect. You want to be the type of girl he enjoys spending time with--fun & exciting & cute. If you get into a rush he will see you as just another girl he can make a "booty call" to. That kind of relationship is very short-lived.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008):

hiya, I int great at these things lol .

I think u should take him to one side and tell him how u feel. Dont do it in front of your friends because you might get embaressed lol. If he doesnt like you then just get over him. You sound great so I dont know why he wont like u but just listen to me just ask him. If he doesnt you might get a bit embaressed so just say ok doesnt matter and walk away.

thanks for listening

xx

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