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writes: my family and i have a caravan by the coast where i met this boy. we were going out for a week when he broke up with me. he wants to get back together with me and i want to be with him but theres a problem im worried about. my family and i only go down there every weekend so i always see him but only when hes working. he works from 10 til 10 and i work from 9 till 5 down there. when we went out i didnt like it because we couldnt go anywhere with eachother because we both work. if we go out again its not going to change. what can i do? im only 16 and so is he but when he finishes work its to late to go out because my parents say its dark and i shouldnt be out at that time at my age. so its difficult. what can i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2006): A relationship involves spending a certain amount of time together, otherwise you basically saddle yourself with all the fetters of having a boyfriend with NONE of the perks. I mean, it's fun to tell people you have a boyfriend, but if you can never see him, what's the point? You need to work out a way to see him enough so that you're satisfied. If that can't be managed, then it's not meant to be right now.
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (3 August 2006):
 I am glad to hear that your parents care about you enough to stop you going out late. I see your dilemma but I am guessing you two must get work breaks and lunch breaks in your respective jobs? Use that time to see each other. If you two really like each other then you should wait until the end of the season and see each other at 'normal' times then - he won't be working weekend shifts from hell all his life.
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