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*ynn1610
writes: My fiancee(22yrs)of three and a half years spends a lot of time with his friends. Together we have a 13 month old and I am always the one left home to take care of her. When I try to talk to him about it he tells me I am nagging and that I take the time we do have together for granted. He usually spends at least 2-3 hours, 3-4 nights a week with his friends. I guess I just don't know what to do. Many times it feels like he is choosing his friends over spending time with me and our daughter. Am I overreacting or do I have a right to be upset?
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (17 April 2010):
I think you should talk with him and allow you to have one or two days off per week, an all girls night where you can let your hair down and do what you want with your girl friends .
You need to have a rest from care giving and be your own self .This is the time where you can catch up with the latest news or gossips and recharge your batteries.
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