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writes:So a girl I went out with a few times in college, about 5 years ago, (we went out on a few dates but really didnt work out and no hard feelings afterward) and was somewhat friends a little while thereafter the few dates we went on...emailed me out of the blue. When we went out a few times, it was kind of rocky (little petty arguments), no sex, made out couple times, but nothing more and really never made any effort to continue a friendship. We just went our separate ways alsobeit.She says in the email she really wants to talk. She past by a pic of me in her photo album and made her realize how long we hadn't talked. She wants to get together. However I'm in another state (bout 6 hours away from where she is).Not in any relationship now, so I don't have to worry about going the ok through a gf or her getting pissed off at me for emailing her back or anything.I haven't emailed her back, just sort of thinking why out of the blue after not a successful attempt at a relationship or even friendship, why the email years later after?Thoughts?Thanks, wildcat Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2007): ***UPDATE***so I emailed/called her and we had a great conversation. The only thing is she is currently engaged to this guy she has been on/off with ever since me and her went out on a few dates in college. However she did go on a little tangent about how she was having serious doubts about their future and while trying on wedding dresses, she just wanted to wear anything but that.So I guess I'm still confused as I was after getting the email.
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reader, Beckto +, writes (25 July 2007):
 If you're interested in her, apart from her interest in you, then sure, check it out. But, if you find that you're not really into her, just let it go.
Just because she's interested in you doesn't mean you should be interested in her.
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (25 July 2007):
She might thinks have changed. Perhaps she thinks the reason for you guys not continuing to date dont exist anymore, or that you could get through them?
People change overtime, grow up, so you could give it a go.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (25 July 2007):
 You have both matured abit by now so what's the harm in meeting up and just having a chat.
Take care.xx.
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