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26-29,
*lisaVali
writes:Hi, I've met a guy a few months ago at a party and he seems to always trying to open a conversation almost everyday lately. He talks a lot non stop and keeps asking me personal questions, and when I ask him a simple question he gives me all the details and also in a long text. Are guys actually that talkative or they act like this to impress girls? And why do you usually seem very talkative with a girl? And why is that guy keeps asking me personal questions? And he also keeps telling me what he likes/dislikes and what he does in his free time and his experiences and memories with his friends and family etc and without me even asking him, he just keeps talking.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (21 July 2015):
 Unless a guy is obsessed with oral sex.... as long as a girl is putting out for him, he could care if she even has a mouth!!!!! "Talking" is not what (we) men are "about".....
Good luck....
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 July 2015):
 GUYS are not one way or the other. They are individuals. THIS guy is a chatterbox.
he is talking to you because he likes you...
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reader, femmenoir  +, writes (21 July 2015):
 Hi,
well, you obviously gave him your mob/ph number, as he sends you regular msgs.
To me, this represents interest in him, on your part too.
The fact that he communicates a lot with you, may mean he is interested in you & in many cases, this is when a guy will communicate most, when he is interested.
Men generally communicate to get their msg across, they don't talk, if they don't have to.
Men like to fix things, solve things, but they won't talk, nor gossip needlessly.
I am not being sexist here, because my comment represents the true biological differences between men & women.
To be honest, it appears he is very interested in you, but the fact that he talks about many differnet things, may also simply imply, that this is simply who he is.
He is a great male communicator, although he may be shy in asking you out directly, so he's trying to give you many hints, by sharing so much about himself & his life with you, however odd/strange it may all seem.
If you do like this guy a lot, why don't you make the first move & ask him if he'd like to go out for coffee, accompany you to see a movie, or go to a local mall together, maybe the aquarium, or social event, if there is anything like this or similar, happening where you live.
Also, bec you're both young & inexperienced,(i'm assuming here), he may be finding it very hard to admit to you, that he feels something for you.
If he feels the same way, you'll soon find out & maybe all the constant talking will slow down, or maybe even stop.
Be brave & you won't know unless you give it a go.
All the best! :-)
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