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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:Hi! - I'm seeing a man from time to time who is currently out of work. For some reason I feel sorry for him and can't help giving him money as I know he likes me more for it! - I even get turned on by the fact that he is dependent on me!The question is this:- Is this or can this be a normal relationship? As I know we both kind of get kicks out of using each other this way! I do love this man though and would do anything for him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your replies. I will be careful. He does really want a job as he has a young child to support. He never really asks for too much either - just a tenner here or twenty there! - But it all adds up I guess!
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (1 January 2009):
 Sooner or later you will start to resent giving him money and if he has any kind of ego, he will start to resent you. He needs to get of him butt and get a job.How long as he been out of a job? And more important is he looking for a new one?
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