A
female
age
30-35,
*exleburger
writes:hey guys =]recently me and my fella starting messing around rimming each other, using flavoured lubes n licking 'em off. But everytime im going to go do it to him, he'll run off to the loo and return a few mins later (im pretty sure hes having a cheeky clean)Everything has been fine and i really enjoy it though the other night i pounced on him before he had chance to disspear to the loo (and before i had chance to lube him up) i must admit, there was an 'odd' taste, but not wanting him to think i was put off i carried on, and the taste faded about 40mins after that i began to feel really sick and had bad stomach painswe went and got into bed and i was seriously dying, having hot sweats, still feeling ill and just generally irritable and uncomfortable. in the middle of the night i had to go and throw up, though afterwards i managed to get some sleep and felt much better in the morning. i was wondering if anyone else had this kind of experience or whether you think i was just ill and its a coinsidence?i know that theres loadsa bacteria down there etc, i just felt that all the other times were ok, so this time should be too! (i fully understand that this isnt everyones cuppa tea, so please aviod stupid/nasty answers, and i apologies for the details!)*i do realise that this question is slightly odd as iv partially answered it myself, im looking more for others experience to see whether this is normal . . .Thanks =]] Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, studmuffincpt  +, writes (20 June 2012):
I am gay and rimming is one of my boyfriends' and my favourite things to do.
I honestly dont think you got sick from rimming. It could have been a case of you had a dormant bug (as most people do) but a slightly unclean rimming experience for either gender wont do that.
I think the best advice is, even if you want to surprise him. Rather get him to clean first. Everyone tastes different. But for you own health, rather makes sure you're both squeaky clean and you wont have any problems. Our immune systems are stronger than you might think.
Happy rimming !!!
A
female
reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (17 September 2009):
 Waiting for the avatar, there, q! Fluff balls. Ha!
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009): People had different scents and taste differently. When I lived with my x for years, I liked his. After divorcing him and getting back together, I didn't like them and had to get used to it. The guy I am with now has a strange odor to his skin. I am leaving him for other reasons, but this comes into play.
...............................
A
female
reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (15 September 2009):
Whether this little bout of intestinal distress is related directly to the lack of hygiene and your ingestion of fecal bacteria, none of us can tell you. As nightingale and the others have mentioned, there are very good reasons why people are told to wash their hands, their spinach, their strawberries, their lettuce, their produce. I once stayed in a country where we were advised to wash all produce first in Tide (clothes detergent), then rinse with a bleach solution. We considered using the washing machine just to make it easier, but somehow the fruit and veg never came out looking as pretty as it did when it went in. (Kiddinngggg...)
I took an absolutely terrifying course in university, Microbiology. If you really stop and think about how many little microscopic bugs are crawling all over and through all of us, you can totally ook yourself out. Condoms over EVERYTHING suddenly seem to be a good idea. This professor was not a particularly good speaker, but he had every single one of us riveted to our chairs, our young mouths gaping open, our young eyes wide as saucers, as he conducted the sexually transmitted infection lecture. He told us about the bacteria that wind up in the oddest places following human sexual games. Navels. Ears. Armpits. Other folds of skin. Empty eye sockets. You can culture some veddy interesting little critters out of some very improbable places.
Sit through one of those lectures, and let me tell you, you will be pushing him, no, THROWING him into the bathroom so he can do all the washing up he needs. You WANT him to be clean, you WANT him to be scrupulously scrubbed (but not so hard he's given himself a cut or a scratch) so that neither of you wind up with an infection that will give your GP fodder for a year's worth of dinners. Or the infectious disease specialist a puzzle to solve: which parasite do we have today?
There are latex sheets called dental dams. They're useful for oral play in the bedroom. Not particularly juicy or sexy, but there's a reason they're recommended for use by sexually active folk who might have more than one partner currently, or in the past.
There is a risk of sharing bacteria, viruses and parasites whenever there is sexual contact. The trick is to recognize it and take steps to minimize, if not eliminate, the risk. Safe sex is pretty much considered by the medical professionals to be a good idea. Why not indulge in a good idea?
Good luck! Be safe!
...............................
A
male
reader, misunderstood1984 +, writes (14 September 2009):
Ok, I just reckon its a tummy bug not caused by your man. Just a coisendence, no way could you get something that quick from felching IMO, tummy bugs normally take 4 hours I think
...............................
A
female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (14 September 2009):
 Thank you q, by the title at first I thought it was a basketball question...
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2009): me and my man enjoy rimming i think u were just mayb unlucky as he never had a chance to clean down there and thts probliy y u were sick mayb in future let him clean down there hun. but dnt let tht put u off coz rimming is great
Good luck :) hope this helps
x
...............................
A
female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (14 September 2009):
"cough" we'll get you some help hang on... q , Uncle Phil, Tish, anybody?
...............................
A
male
reader, Illithid +, writes (14 September 2009):
 I've rimmed my ex several times, and always felt fine afterwards. She never ran off to the bathroom before or after, but she was always immaculately clean, even pink. There was always a slight taste, as I assume is normal, but it's possible that in this case with you, he might have eaten something that wasn't great, and you got some of it. It could be a one-time thing, or not.
My gut reaction? Let him keep cleaning pre-rimming, but don't worry too much about it for now. Unless this happens again if you catch him by surprise, it might be an isolated incident.
...............................
|
