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writes:I am involved with a guy long distance, and we have been talking for a long time. He usually tells me that he likes different things about me, but lately he has started replacing the word like with the word love and when we are online he emphasizes the word love by using capitals. I am not sure what to think. Someone has suggested that he is trying to let me know that he loves me without actually saying it to test the waters so to speak. I am just not sure what to think, I would appreciate any advice you could give me.ThanksTake care
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou for your advice, it has helped me a lot as I wasn't sure what to think. I do care about him a lot and I am going to talk to him and see what happens, Thankyou once again I appreciate you taking the time to help me.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 May 2011):
 Hmm well it does sound like he is hinting big time that his feelings have changed, my guess is that he is testing the waters to see how you feel. How do you feel? Do you see this guy as just a bit of fun, or do you have feelings for him and see yourself having a future with him? These are questions you need to ask yourself and also my best advice would be talk to him so that you are both clear with each other and dont get your wires crossed. Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2011): It does sound like he is really trying to show you that he cares. Its like a subtle way of testing your reaction to the word.
How do you usually react when he does this?
If you like it, trying doing the same thing back and see how he reacts then. He may just come out say it if he feels safe.
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