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*ddy_nicolas
writes: Hello,everybody...it's been ages since i have written here.i have been kinda busy and i couldnt find that time. well....i've just moved recently from England to Italy.i was just thinkin that the italian lifestyle will be different.i have managed to get a part time job here(as a waiter). Everything started since i saw and met this girl.Her name is Jen.im writing here coz i would sincerely appreciate any advice:^_^ . She is exactely my type of woman:cute,nice,slim.SInce i met here she keeps staring at me vvery much.we dont have too much time to talk because we are working at differnt sectors. Every time that she looks at me i look at her straight into her eyes and she is doing the same thing..without saying a word.i feel like is a game.we started to touch.(not a sexual touch)but for ex:everytime that she passes by me she would hit me or poke me.and after this she smiles.i have started to do the same thing. i asked her to give me her phone number and she did.im so freaked out that she wouldnt answer 2 it.i phoned her few times and she kept saying tht she didnt hear it.at work she behaves like she wants me..but after that for a couple of days i know absolutely nothing about her(by the way,she's with 9yrs older than me,)WHAT DO U THINK?does she like me?or is just a game?what should i do in this situation?what would u do if u were in my shoes?(i now this girl for about 5days and meet her just at work-in weekends)Thank you
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reader, Universe Man  +, writes (5 July 2010):
YES, IT IS A GAME. It is always a game. Also, she likes you. The two things are true at the same time.
You have known her only five days. You know that you will see each other many more times. GO SLOW. Do not rush into a dating relationship. Keep flirting, keep talking, keep her guessing, and keep building tension.
Why call her on the phone? Some night after work you should just go across the street for a drink. Don't make your first alone time together a big event that you plan ahead and get dressed up for. Keep it simple and spontaneous.
Keep in mind, she probably has never dated a guy 9 years younger than her. She probably is a little uneasy about the idea and will take time to convince.
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