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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Following situation: 1 guy 2 girlsOne of the girls is his ex and he was madly in love with the other one 2 years ago so he is pretty good friends (probably she is one of his best friends)with the ex (although she has a bf!) they write often on Facebook and sometimes then meet with their clique to hang out and sometimes he is kind of flirty and everyone knows that she and her boyfriend quarrel a lot so they there is a chance that they break up any time maybe tomorrow or next week ... So he was madly in love with the other girl after the break up with the other one but she didn`t want him as a boyfriend then but in June she suddenly began to see him more than a friend and since then they make out sometimes at parties and they also write and call often (but in this country it is usual that someday the boy asks the girl if she wanna be his girlfriend but this never happened )In August when the ex told him that she was happy for him if he was happy with the other girl he replied that he is just kind of wasting time with making out with her and calling him happy would be exaggerated.Do you think he is just waiting for his ex to be single and he just wastes time with making out with the other girl? when he would love the other girl why wouldn`t he make it official or ask her to be his gf?
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (9 October 2011):
It sounds like his heart belongs to his ex girlfriend and he is just fooling about because she has a boyfriend already. He is probably to proud to tell his ex girlfriend how he feels about her because he is scared of rejection. If she becomes single again am pretty sure he will want to get back with her.
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